1. Tracey Said,

   Yes, but she’s not having sex with her now, is she….nooooooo…YOU are.

2. SassyFemme Said,

   The only thing that jumps out at me as being different (not necessarily weird, just different) is arresting Brittney Spears. The rest could be anyone’s ex, probably. Well, not sex with HG, but sex with their own ex.

3. Lisa Said,

   No, I checked and you are definitely not weird. Cross that one off your list.

4. Tricia Said,

   I think its a little weird. I don’t ever want to run into someone my girlfriend has slept with. Luckily we moved far away from all our ex-girlfriends.

5. Cory Said,

   I am with SassyFemme on this one.

6. melissa lion Said,

   I second SassyFemme. Or third because Cory already seconded.

   All this means is that the Ex has very good taste in women.

7. Val Said,

   And the ex’s loss is YOUR gain!

8. Corgimom Said,

   HG is at least in part the woman you love because of the time spent and lessons learned with the ex…and because she knew to move on.

9. Syd Said,

   Of course you’re weird. But, not for any of this.

10. stacey Said,

    not weird at all. i see wifey’s ex all the time. (although her ex is a man). he and i get along quite well. we even had a new year’s party last year at our house. in attendance, wifey, me, her two kids, her parents, wifey’s ex with his new wife and HER two kids, plus wifey’s ex’s parents. a good time was had by all.

11. Wendy Said,

    I did feel a little weirdness afoot when I read that! You are a brave woman! But not weird.

12. Caitlin Said,

    Good for you! There’s no way my gf’s ex would come anywhere near sleeping in my house…and not because there is anything wrong with her or my current relationship..all is congenial, but because SHE SLEPT WITH MY GF! Haha, you’re a bigger person than I am!

13. Kim Said,

    You’re not weird. There’s definitely a bit of a stress factor involved there. I think I may be uncomfortable if I were in your shoes!

14. Leane Said,

    What’d Britney get arrested for again?
    You’re not weird. Though I’d feel weird if I had my spouse’s ex over to stay at my house.
    But on the other hand, you are a good woman to handle that so well!

15. sk in London Said,

    not sure what the right thing to do is with ex’s. i am about to visit Portland again, just wrote to my newly engaged ex over there, and got good feedback about catching up… but as the ex-at-a-distance/no new partner character i don’t want anything to be weird for her and her new beloved. it all feels utterly clear but i get a sense from her really perfect new partner (perfect in ways that i was far from…) that ‘i’ make things a little peculiar.

    that’s a funny spot to be in too.
    to feel the friendship with my ex over and above anything else, but ‘anything else’ includes someone who might put me in the ’slept with her for 1 1/2 years’ category.

    i wonder where HG’s ex places herself. perhaps you pick up little vibes of strangeness??
    I hope not.

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